Kinktwin

The questionnaire below lists some kinks and practices that might spice your sex life. Be honest and mark your interests. Once you and your partner submit it, it will reveal only your matching interests, interest levels, and comments (if you wrote any). This is an excellent opportunity to explore new ideas without worrying about what your partner might think. Even if you are not primarily interested in a particular kink, consider the possibility of your partner having an interest in it. So take your time, try to be open-minded, and carefully consider each item. After you submit your answers, a referral link will be provided to be shared with your partner. Your partner needs to use that link so that the system can compare your answers.

Optional question filters

Anatomy

This information will be saved and used to filter out anatomically irrelevant questions for both of you.

Categories

You can remove categories in which you are not interested. However, this is no different than simply leaving them marked as "not interested," and it may cause you miss kinks that your partner may have. Your partner will still be able to see all the categories, this affects only you.

You must choose at least one category.

Choices:
  • Not interested: You are not interested, it is irrelevant, or you already practice this.
  • Hesitant: This option behaves like "open to try" if your partner marks the corresponding item as "curious" or "interested." In this case, your partner will see you are open to try it. Otherwise, it works like "not interested" and it does not produce a match. You can use this option if you would give it a chance only if your partner has an interest (or you do not want to disclose your kink unless your partner is at least curious as well).
  • Open to try: You do not have a strong opinion about it, so you are open to discuss and try it. If you are more on the positive side, consider to mark it "curious," or this will not produce a match if your partner chooses "hesitant."
  • Curious: This is something you would like to try.
  • Interested: This is something you are definitely interested to try or do more.

Not interested
Hesitant
Open to try
Curious
Interested

Warming up

Before and during sex

Slower/longer foreplay before sex

Showing more affection

Giving a sensual massage

Receiving a sensual massage

Dancing and stripteasing for your partner

Your partner dancing and stripteasing for you

Playing a drinking/foreplay game

Initiating sex yourself more often

Your partner initiating sex more often

Kissing/nibbling/licking your partner's body

Your partner kissing/nibbling/licking your body

Waking your partner from sleep by initiating sex

Your partner waking you from sleep by initiating sex

Using delaying spray/gel(Products that delay climax and ejaculation)

Using lubricant(Click for more info)

Dirty talking(Click for more info)

Having rougher sex

Having softer sex

Being more vocal(Moaning and screaming)

Your partner being more vocal(Moaning and screaming)

Calling your partner with their name or any other specific name

Your partner calling you with your name or any other specific name

Taking the lead more

Your partner taking the lead more

Contraception and protection

Having sex without protection

Having sex using a male barrier (such as male condom)

Having sex using a female barrier (such as female condom)

Having sex using hormonal contraception(Such as contraceptive pills or hormone injections)

Having sex using an intrauterine device (IUD)(Click for more info)

Having sex using other contraception methods

Getting sterilized(Click for more info)

Your partner getting sterilized(Click for more info)

Other types of penetration

Giving

Giving anal sex(Penetrating your partner)

Vaginal fingering your partner

Anal fingering your partner

Vaginal fisting your partner(Click for more info)

Anal fisting your partner(Click for more info)

Penetrating your partner with other objects

Receiving

Receiving anal sex(Your partner penetrating you)

Your partner vaginal fingering you

Your partner anal fingering you

Your partner vaginal fisting you(Click for more info)

Your partner anal fisting you(Click for more info)

Your partner penetrating you with other objects

Setting

In a forest

In a tent

Under water

In public

In a public bathroom

In an elevator

In flight

In a car

In someone else's house

In a workplace

At home while there are people in other rooms

In the living room

In the kitchen

In the bathroom

In the bathtub

In the shower

In the garden

In front of a mirror

With the curtains open

With the lights on

With the lights off(In the dim light or complete darkness)

With a background music

While making phone calls

While watching TV/videos

While playing computer games

While cooking

While smoking

While drunk

While high

While on period

In the morning

In midday

In the night

Other settings (discuss)

Non-penetrative sex

Giving

Giving oral sex(Stimulating your partner's genitals using your mouth)

Deep-throating your partner's penis or a dildo(Click for more info)

Giving anilingus (rimjob)(Stimulating your partner's anus using your mouth)

Giving oral sex or anilingus while your partner sits on your face or forces your head to oral sex(Click for more info)

Giving handjob(Click for more info)

Giving footjob(Click for more info)

Giving breastjob(Click for more info)

Giving non-penetrative sex using other body parts (discuss)

Receiving

Receiving oral sex(Your partner stimulating your genitals using their mouth)

Your partner deep-throating your penis or a dildo(Click for more info)

Receiving anilingus (rimjob)(Your partner stimulating your anus using their mouth)

Receiving oral sex or anilingus while you sit on your partner's face or force your partner's head to oral sex(Click for more info)

Receiving handjob(Click for more info)

Receiving footjob(Click for more info)

Receiving breastjob(Click for more info)

Receiving non-penetrative sex using other body parts (discuss)

Together

Dry humping(Rubbing against each other while clothed or half-clothed)

Sex positions

You being on top (your partner being on bottom)

You being on bottom (your partner being on top)

Trying new positions(Click to browse them)

Lying positions(Click to see some examples)

Face-to-face positions(Click to see some examples)

Reverse positions(Click to see some examples)

Sitting positions(Click to see some examples)

Standing positions(Click to see some examples)

Physically less challenging positions(Click to see some examples)

Physically more challenging positions(Click to see some examples)

Non-penetrative positions(Click to see some examples)

Pornography and masturbation

Pornography

Creation
Filming or taking pictures of your partner (without face)

Your partner filming or taking pictures of you (without face)

Filming or taking pictures of yourselves together (without face)

Filming or taking pictures of your partner (with face)

Your partner filming or taking pictures of you (with face)

Filming or taking pictures of yourselves together (with face)

Publishing and/or making money off your pornographic content(Click for more info)

Sending permanent or disappearing nudes to your partner

Your partner sending permanent or disappearing nudes to you

Consumption
Watching/viewing pornographic content you created together

Watching/viewing others' pornographic content together

Watching and re-enacting porn together

Watching live cam shows together(Click for more info)

Watching hentai or similar cartoons together(Click for more info)

Masturbation

Masturbating while your partner watches

Your partner masturbating while you watch

Masturbating together

Phone sex

Cybersex(Click for more info)

Toys and tools

To be used on you

Strap-on dildo(Click for more info)

Vibrator or prostate massager(Click for more info)

Remote control vibrator/panties(Click for more info)

Double-penetration toy(Click for more info)

Butt plug or anal hook(Click for more info)

Anal beads(Click for more info)

Anal probe or another smaller toy(Short and narrow, finger-like vibrators designed for anal stimulation, easier for beginners)

Blindfolds

Chastity belt(Click for more info)

Nipple clamps(Click for more info)

Mouth gags that keep the mouth shut (such as ball or muzzle gags)(Click for more info)

Mouth gags that keep the mouth open (such as ring or spider gags)(Click for more info)

Handcuffs or other types of restraints(Click for more info)

Body harness(Click for more info)

Nose hook(Click for more info)

Electrosimulation toys such as electrodes or wands(Click for more info)

Wartenberg pinwheel(Click for more info)

Needles or other needle play tools(Click for more info)

Hot wax(Click for more info)

Flogger(Click for more info)

Speculum(Click for more info)

Peehole toys such as urethtral sounding rod/dilator/catheter(Click for more info)

Suction cup(Click for more info)

Clitoral/pussy pump(Click for more info)

Penis pump(Click for more info)

Cock ring(Click for more info)

Cock cage(Click for more info)

Other toys (discuss)

To be used on your partner

Strap-on dildo(Click for more info)

Vibrator or prostate massager(Click for more info)

Remote control vibrator/panties(Click for more info)

Double-penetration toy(Click for more info)

Butt plug or anal hook(Click for more info)

Anal beads(Click for more info)

Anal probe or another smaller toy(Short and narrow, finger-like vibrators designed for anal stimulation, easier for beginners)

Blindfolds

Chastity belt(Click for more info)

Nipple clamps(Click for more info)

Mouth gags that keep the mouth shut (such as ball or muzzle gags)(Click for more info)

Mouth gags that keep the mouth open (such as ring or spider gags)(Click for more info)

Handcuffs or other types of restraints(Click for more info)

Body harness(Click for more info)

Nose hook(Click for more info)

Electrosimulation toys such as electrodes or wands(Click for more info)

Wartenberg pinwheel(Click for more info)

Needles or other needle play tools(Click for more info)

Hot wax(Click for more info)

Flogger(Click for more info)

Speculum(Click for more info)

Peehole toys such as urethtral sounding rod/dilator/catheter(Click for more info)

Suction cup(Click for more info)

Clitoral/pussy pump(Click for more info)

Penis pump(Click for more info)

Cock ring(Click for more info)

Cock cage(Click for more info)

Other toys (discuss)

Together

Sex furnitures such as sex pillows or sex swings(Click for more info)

Sex dice(Click for more info)

Other sex games (discuss)

BDSM

On you

Your partner performing bondage on you(Click for more info)

Your partner dominating you

Your partner humiliating you

Your partner "punishing" you or inflicting pain on you

Your partner biting you

Your partner scratching you

Your partner tickling you

Your partner pulling your hair

Your partner torturing your genitals

Your partner performing orgasm denial on you

Your partner forcing you to orgasm

Your partner forcing you into sex (consensual non-consent/rape fantasy)(Click for more info)

Your partner strangling you or controlling your breath(Click for more info)

Your partner slapping/whipping/flogging/caning you (Impact play)(Click for more info)

Your partner subjecting you to edgeplay(Click for more info)

On your partner

Performing bondage on your partner(Click for more info)

Dominating your partner

Humiliating your partner

"Punishing" your partner or inflicting pain on them

Biting your partner

Scratching your partner

Tickling your partner

Pulling your partner's hair

Torturing your partner's genitals

Performing orgasm denial on your partner

Forcing your partner to orgasm

Forcing your partner into sex (consensual non-consent/rape fantasy)(Click for more info)

Strangling your partner or controlling their breath(Click for more info)

Slapping/whipping/flogging/caning your partner (Impact play)(Click for more info)

Subjecting your partner to edgeplay(Click for more info)

Clothing and roleplay

You

Wearing clothes, accessories, makeup, etc. associated with the opposite gender

Dressing and acting like an infant/toddler/kid(Diaper and such)

Dressing and acting like a teenager(High school uniform, scottish skirt, etc.)

Wearing a uniform(Police uniform, lab coat, nursing uniform, maid uniform, etc.)

Wearing religious clothing(Cassock, nun's habit, hijab, etc.)

Wearing a collar

Wearing latex

Wearing sexy underclothes or nightgowns

Your partner

Your partner wearing clothes, accessories, makeup, etc. associated with the opposite gender

Your partner dressing and acting like an infant/toddler/kid(Diaper and such)

Your partner dressing and acting like a teenager(High school uniform, scottish skirt, etc.)

Your partner wearing a uniform(Police uniform, lab coat, nursing uniform, maid uniform, etc.)

Your partner wearing religious clothing(Cassock, nun's habit, hijab, etc.)

Your partner wearing a collar

Your partner wearing latex

Your partner wearing sexy underclothes or nightgowns

Other

Incest roleplay

Incest (adopted/step) roleplay

Roleplaying as strangers

Other types of roleplay (discuss)

Ejaculation

You

Ejaculating in your partner or on your partner's genitals

Ejaculating on your partner's buttocks

Ejaculating in your partner's mouth

Ejaculating on your partner's face

Ejaculating on your partner's chest

Ejaculating on your partner's belly

Ejaculating on your partner's back/waist

Ejaculating in your partner's hands

Ejaculating on your partner's feet

Ejaculating on your partner's other body parts

Ejaculating in/on your partner and cleaning it with your mouth (by licking or sucking)

Ejaculating on food and letting your partner eat it

Ejaculating and letting your partner smell it

Ejaculating and letting your partner swallow it

Ejaculating and kissing your partner after they/you got your fluid on their/your mouth

Your partner

Your partner ejaculating in you or on your genitals

Your partner ejaculating on your buttocks

Your partner ejaculating in your mouth

Your partner ejaculating on your face

Your partner ejaculating on your chest

Your partner ejaculating on your belly

Your partner ejaculating on your back/waist

Your partner ejaculating in your hands

Your partner ejaculating on your feet

Your partner ejaculating on your other body parts

Your partner ejaculating in/on you and cleaning it with their mouth (by licking or sucking)

Your partner ejaculating on food and letting you eat it

Your partner ejaculating and letting you smell it

Your partner ejaculating and letting you swallow it

Your partner ejaculating and kissing you after they/you got their fluid on their/your mouth

Other bodily fluids and substances

Urine

You
Urinating and letting your partner watch

Urinating on your partner

Urinating in your partner

Urinating in your partner's mouth or letting them drink it

Urinating your pants

Urinating while wearing a diaper

Your partner
Your partner urinating and letting you watch

Your partner urinating on you

Your partner urinating in you

Your partner urinating in your mouth or letting you drink it

Your partner urinating their pants

Your partner urinating while wearing a diaper

Feces

You
Defecating and letting your partner watch

Defecating on your partner

Defecating and letting your partner eat it

Defecating in your partner's mouth

Defecating your pants

Defecating while wearing a diaper

Your partner
Your partner defecating and letting you watch

Your partner defecating on you

Your partner defecating and letting you eat it

Your partner defecating in your mouth

Your partner defecating their pants

Your partner defecating while wearing a diaper

Vomit

Vomiting or gagging while your partner watches

Watching your partner vomit or gag

Vomiting on your partner

Your partner vomiting on you

Vomiting and letting your partner eat it

Your partner vomiting and letting you eat it

Body grooming​/decoration​/modification

On you

Cutting your hair

Growing your hair

Dyeing/styling your hair or wearing a wig

Not dyeing/styling your hair or not wearing a wig

Letting your partner style your hair

Trimming/removing your body hair

Growing your body hair

Letting your partner groom your body hair

Trimming/removing your pubic hair

Growing your pubic hair

Letting your partner groom your pubic hair

Clipping your nails

Growing your nails

Painting your nails

Not painting your nails

Letting your partner paint your nails

Wearing makeup

Not wearing makeup

Letting your partner apply makeup on you

Losing weight

Gaining weight

Tattooing

Ear piercing

Body piercing

Scarification

Pearling(Click for more info)

Tongue splitting(Click for more info)

Circumcision(Click for more info)

Genital foreskin restoration(Click for more info)

Labia reduction(Click for more info)

Labia stretching(Click for more info)

Other modifications (discuss)

On your partner

Cutting their hair

Growing their hair

Dyeing/styling their hair or wearing a wig

Not dyeing/styling their hair or not wearing a wig

Letting you style their hair

Trimming/removing their body hair

Growing their body hair

Letting you groom their body hair

Trimming/removing their pubic hair

Growing their pubic hair

Letting you groom their pubic hair

Clipping their nails

Growing their nails

Painting their nails

Not painting their nails

Letting you paint their nails

Wearing makeup

Not wearing makeup

Letting you apply makeup on them

Losing weight

Gaining weight

Tattooing

Ear piercing

Body piercing

Scarification

Pearling(Click for more info)

Tongue splitting(Click for more info)

Circumcision(Click for more info)

Genital foreskin restoration(Click for more info)

Labia reduction(Click for more info)

Labia stretching(Click for more info)

Other modifications (discuss)

Involving other people

Involving a male

Involving a female

Involving a transgender

Double penetration on you

Double penetration on your partner

Double penetration on another person

Watching another person having sex with your partner

Your partner watching you having sex with another person

Having sex and letting another person watch you

Watching together other people having sex

Having sex while other couples having sex in the same room (without touching them)

Daisy chain(Click for more info)

Swinging(Click for more info)

Gang bang(Click for more info)

Involving other kinks

Ahegao/orgasm face fetish(Click for more info)

Amputee or disability fetish(Click for more info)

Armpit fetish(Click for more info)

Balloon fetish(Click for more info)

Belly fetish(Click for more info)

Blood fetish(Click for more info)

Branding(Click for more info)

Breast fetish(Click for more info)

Buttocks fetish(Click for more info)

Crush fetish(Click for more info)

Exhibitionism(Click for more info)

Flatulence fetish(Sexual arousal by anal flatulence sound or smell)

Fat/feederism fetish(Click for more info)

Financial domination(Click for more info)

Foot fetish(Click for more info)

Furry fandom(Click for more info)

Hair fetish(Click for more info)

Hand fetish(Click for more info)

Infidelity/cuckold fetish(Click for more info)

Lactation and breastfeeding(Click for more info)

Leg fetish(Click for more info)

Mannequin or statue fetish(Click for more info)

Mask fetish(Sexual arousal by masks or seeing people wearing masks that cover their face or head)

Medical fetish(Click for more info)

Navel fetish(Click for more info)

Necrophilia(Click for more info)

Nose fetish(Click for more info)

Pregnancy fetish(Click for more info)

Sensation play(Click for more info)

Sensory deprivation(Click for more info)

Shoe or sock fetish(Click for more info)

Smoking fetish(Click for more info)

Sneeze fetish(Click for more info)

Sweat fetish(Sexual arousal by body sweat or body smell)

Tear/crying fetish(Click for more info)

Underwear fetish(Click for more info)

Voyeurism(Click for more info)

Wet and messy fetish(Click for more info)

Other kinks (discuss)


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